thatblckgrl:
I have a lot of followers, yet I talk to the same people. I mean, I enjoy talking to these people. But shit. I would like to talk to new people too. Whats up followers?
Going to the gym a lot lately, like it so much I’m applying for a job there later today. Trying to lose weight, lost 2” off my waist that went straight to my hips making me look like a cartoon character. I’m 5’4 and 37-26-39 Eek.
I love looking at your pictures about nails and fashion. I really enjoy your social commentary. For example you said that Black men are beautiful. They really are. Men of African descent are more muscular, taller, and have broader shoulders on average more than men of other heritages. Not to mention in Acadia, where I live, we have a huge immigration of men from Haiti in the last couple years. They are gorgeous, and the most polite, attentive men you will ever meet.
I avoid relationships with men in general because I don’t want kids and any relationship I have is by accident. I wouldn’t go out of my way to date a Haitian because our philosophies are very different. For example 80% of Haitians are Roman Catholics; I’m agnostic. In general I would avoid anyone who wanted a lot of children. Before you say this is racist, I have taken courses on African culture from a man who lived most of his life in Ghana and is a real African— The importance of child bearing is deeply rooted in African culture. In some areas of Africa, women who have had 10 children are given elite status. And well… I don’t know if I even want one kid. Keep in mind I find an excuse not to date just about anyone I meet, this is my stock excuse for the new immigrants (besides them, there aren’t many Blacks here).
Also I’m Cajun and well the jokes about our men’s penises are true. But, the lady businesses are shrunk in proportion. So, when I’m hooking up I usually go for French or Asian men. There are always exceptions. But, usually if I’m dating someone who is of another decent its because we’ve really connected. So if there is a deep connection I can deal with the painfully large penis. Not, saying that all black men have giant ones, but I’m pretty sure that a man that is 6’2 is going to have a bigger one than a man who is 5’6 in general.
What black women have going for them is the shape of their bodies. They have the most beautiful shape I have ever seen. And I absolutely am OBSESSED with black women’s hair. Ever since I was a baby I loved the poofiness of the black hair. I remember trying to make my doll’s hair look like the little girl’s hair from the Crosby show and there was one large family at our church. I always thought it was the most unique beautiful thing and always wanted my mom to crimp my hair and then I would try to tease it… (It didn’t work but I was 4 or 5)
But, what you are saying is true, Black men don’t date Black women as much anymore. They don’t know what they’re missing. White girls for the most part need surgery to look half the woman a black woman does naturally. White girls are never happy with their hair color and usually bleach it, because naturally its usually some color between dishwater and bark. Most can’t cook, have eating disorders, and tend to have the body shape of 12 year old boys. They lack confidence, and some can’t even work because they feel entitled to sit around and have others work for them.
Society has brainwashed everyone to pursue Lucy Lu or Kate Moss. The fact of the matter is the only difference between races is looks and how we’re raised. Black women usually raise their daughters to be strong and independent and their sons to respect them. Black people have had to fight for their freedom in the past recent enough that some people still alive remember what its like to be treated differently back when discrimination was still blatant.
I admire black women because they’re the ones who are more sensitive to rights infringements and are willing to stand up. I’m a watchdog too. Because where I live there is discrimination, and inequality but its not blatant and its difficult to combat. So, I cheer on others in their struggle, because I think that the world would be a better place if we listened to black women a little more often (with the exception of Michelle Obama she’s rich, that isn’t a color).
